I'm raging.

I'm so fucking cut right now, I just want to fuckin kill someone honestly I would if I knew where this guy lived. Pretty much my girl friend still goes to school and she got caught today playing on her ipod touch, so the teacher asked her for her phone to take it off of her and she thought it was fucking funny so she gave her phone to him, having a laugh about it knowing that there was fucking nudes of herself and pictures of my fuckin cock on there and a fuck load of dirty text messages that she made a fucking folder for like a dumb fucking piece of shit under the name "Naughty texts" I mean how fucking stupid can you get. So anyway after fucking 20 mins after him having it and him looking through it yeah fucking privacy invasion people telling her that he was looking through her phone at all this shit at the videos and text messages and shit, she still decides not to go and tell anyone about it or try and get her phone back and leaves it with him till the end of the fucking day and she thinks it's all right? Words cannot describe the fucking amount of passion of hatred I have inside of me right now, she is fucking lucky she told me over the phone or I seriously think I would of bashed her. I feel like stabbing that cunt and I'm seriously thinking of going and following the cunt home to find out where he lives. Apparently her mum is going to go up to the school and have a rage but I highly doubt she is because that fucking old cunt is full of shit and is all talk. The only doubts I have is the teacher is an ex military polish solider. I'm so fuckin angry right now, I couldn't give a fuck about the fact that he looked at my dick or the text messages but the fact that he saw her naked and she fucking gave the phone to him knowing all that shit was on there just makes me want to kill someone and I'm about to fuckin snap, I'm on a drug detox and under so much stress right now already and having to deal with this fucking shit. Fucking dumb slut may as well have stripped in front of him and she thinks it's alright and expects me to fucking love her the dirty fucking whore.

 

WOW. Just wow...

First of all, take a deep breath man. I know your fuming right now but try and breathe deeply. Relax, take your mind off of it.

Your girlfriend is totally in the wrong here by giving her phone to her teacher without it being locked, and fully knowing what was on there. Without being there myself I can't fully determine what happened, but by the way you describe what happened it sounds like she almost thought it was funny that her teacher was looking through the phone. I would not trust your girlfriend anymore with pics of yourself, OR pics of her own, because she obviously can't keep those things private and to herself.

About the teacher though - I am assuming you guys are just kids (underage), and therefore what he was looking at will be constituted as child pornography. He should have known the second he saw a nude picture that it would be in his best interest to put the phone away, yet he didn't. If I were you, I would get the school involved and definitely get an adult to talk to this pervert. He could likely lose his job over this, possibly even be charged if it could be proven that he spent school time browsing through all these pictures and sext messages of underage kids.

Don't take this lightly man, you should definitely get an adult involved who can whip up a shitstorm because this IS a big issue. You need to try and control your temper though in the mean time. Violence and stress aren't going to lead you anywhere good.

 

That's fucked up man, but you got to calm down man, you don't want to do something stupid that you'll regret in the future alright? Your girl friend's being ridiculous by doing that and the teacher is way over the board going through her personal stuff...

The best thing you can do now is do your best to keep your composure and let it past. This is not worth getting yourself into deeper shit.

 

I'm 18 but I'm not her guardian so I can't do anything man I'm so pissed, can't get rid of this feeling of broken trust like she stabbed me in the back.

 

Just try and stay calm as possible. Try to forgive and forget. Put it all behind you and maybe not be as dirty through texts messages.

 

Yeah maybe I should just let it go

 

Do exactly this.
Don't this perv of a teacher get away with this and don't let your girlfriend think its ok this happened and act like the teacher seeing her naked isn't a big deal, because that is way out of line. Don't get really pissed and do something stupid, but you need to do something about it.

 

It would be a good thing if you can eventually try and work through this with your girlfriend once you have calmed down, and hopefully forgive her eventually.

But I dont blame you one bit for being so upset. She has broken your trust in a very bad way, and thats not something that most people can just get over whenever they want to. The onus is on your girlfriend now to make this up to YOU and to gain your trust back, you don't just have to magically forgive her.

 

I understand that you are angry.
However I think you shouldn't be calling your girlfriend a slut for this.
I don't think she could have done much. I wouldnt dump my girlfriend just for that, although I think you should talk to her about it, thats the only way to solve it. Revenge only leads to more trouble.
I've also had teachers that were assholes (luckily im in college now). Those teachers dont care what you have to say and just do their thing.
Try to learn from this, dont keep nudes on your phone, its way to easy for someone else to acces it.
Anyway, I hope it's going to be okay between you two.