your first love

i just saw some threads.
it touched my heart.
when i was young,i falled love to a girl.
it was ten year till now,i always miss her.
she was married 1year ago.

i know ,she does not belong to me, but I could not help missing her always
how can i do ? what can i do ?

tell me ,do you have your first love?
do you have the same feeling as me ?

 

I've posted quite a few sob stories around Sythe about my first love... its been nearly 2 years since we split and I can't help but miss her everyday. Not just as my girlfriend, but she was my partner and closest companion for many years and she opened my eyes to so many feelings and experiences in the world that never existed for me before that.

No matter how much I try to meet new women, I just can't find anybody who makes me feel the same way or who I feel is up to par with her. I don't know whether my unwillingness to love somebody else is stubbornly romantic, or just plain stupid and sad and heartwrenching for both me and the people close to me who want to see me happy with another girl.

Oh well, as they say: time heals all wounds. I am not in a rush to find a new relationship any time soon and I know those things happen naturally and at the strangest of times anyways.

 

You need to find a new women. Even if you can't love her, be with her she will make you forget your first love..

Well not forget, I still haven't forget mine but atleast you get over it.

 

The first love is the one you will always remember, but it makes you grow a stronger person feeling that hurt, you become a better person through it. We Have all been there but you cant let it get you down, chin up!

 

Luckily for me I'm still with my first love, and it's going great. It's horrible to see so many stories like this, and it worries me, but I'm enjoying every minute of it. I know that if things ever go wrong she'll never be out of my head and I'll never forget about her. I know no girl will ever be able to compare to her, the things we've gone through, the person I can be when I'm with her..It's special and assuming that you've gone through the same thing. Whether it be 10 days, 10 months, or in your case 10 years that pass, you won't forget, because from what I've seen/learned, your connection with your first love is strong, stronger than any connection you'll most likely make. It truly is amazing.


With that being said, you'll probably never forget her, but that's just being realistic. I guess if you just wait it out and keep searching for other women you'll find yourself happy with another woman soon.

Best of luck.

 

thanks your suggestion ,yeah ,i will . but i think i will never forget her in my life . i dont know if its sad or lucky for me .

 

It's true. I'm pretty sure we've all been through it, especially me. You may not forget that person, but you'll get over that person and you'll feel better.

 

My first love was my childhood friend who I grew up with. I asked her out in grade 7 and she said she'd think about it. Next time I saw her she was going out with someone with the same name as me. We never ever even talked since. To say I was heartbroken would be an understatement. I was depressed all throughout middle school and lost all my friends. In grade 10 I met a girl who I am convinced is my soul-mate. We jokingly (lol or not) make plans on getting married and talk about taking each other's virginity.

Just take my advice about it getting better. I wanted to kill myself in middle school (nobody was holding me back) but I waited for the light at the end of that dark cave an angel was waiting for me.

Hahaha I probably sound weird and gave too much info but it felt good expressing this.

 

Well, my first love... She's my best friend, and well. friend zoned ftw. :/

 

My first "love" was some crazy girl who was 3 years older than I and acted like she was 8 (I was 14, she was 17 at the time). Luckily for me, that didn't work out because she moved away. Now I'm with my first true love and have been ever since, 5 years later. If there's one thing I've learned about relationships it's that you should never let yourself become too caught up in them.