Fake friends & Judgement

I recently have had some difficulty in my life, i took acid MDMA and smoked weed all at once, and i almost had heart failure. Luckily for me i have an awesome mom, who i love to death who has supported me in everything i've ever done. And im glad to say, im pretty much back to normal now.
Lately i've been really struggling with things in my mind. I've always said not to judge and be forgiving, and love everyone. But is it that judgement should be used within reason&sense? i feel like i lost sense with who i am and was forcing myself to see the good in everyone, even when i knew there was a strange feeling about some people. My mom knew that i was knocking around with people i shouldnt be, but i refused to listen to her and thought i was right, and i was being just, when she was just looking out for me. Now i've been through all of this (It's took me over 2months to get back to normal) i can see where she is coming from. Do some people just have totally bad intentions yet can seemly be your "friend"?
I found it so hard to believe that somone who i thought i was so close to as a 'friend' was actually not my friend at all. I was friends with him for 2 years,
I recently found out he threatened to kill my other friends mom and has been stealing money from her son. i mean what the fuck,..


ive been finding this so hard to get over lately, its all i've been thinking about constantly. I'm just wanting some advice i guess. Thanks for reading.

 

what or who told you taking MDMA smoking weed and dropping acid at the same time was even remotely safe?
Also if your "friends" didnt stop you from doing that then no shit their not your friends. They obv don't care about you at all.
As for your friend threatening murder and also stealing money. He probably has a drug problem(hes not just dropping acid and smoking weed)

 

Taking acid and MDMA is actually very common and is even called candy flipping. It's not that dangerous if the proper dose is taken. If you almost had heart failure, then you took too much or you could already have heart problems, in which case you shouldn't take any drugs at all. Considering you said you ALMOST had heart failure, I think you were just imagining it. It's not uncommon to freak out and think you're dying while on acid. You can't blame your friends for allowing you take it because it was your choice and they couldn't have known what was going to happen. As far as your friend threatening to kill your friend's mom and stealing money from him, he obviously has some issues. It's possible he has a drug problem since he's desperate enough to steal from his friends and probably some mental issues also if he's threatening to kill someone. If you have any interest in being his friend, then you and your other friends should try talking to him. If that doesn't work, then just lose him. It's obvious that he's heading down a dark path and he's only going to bring you trouble if you continue hanging around him.

 

yeah, im not going to be hanging with him anymore, its just the problem is he's about the only guy i was hanging with an other so called friends i saw i usally saw with him. so now i kinda have no friends

lame123, pretty much every 'friend' i had takes drugs. i only have one friend now, who just drinks.

he does have a drug problem, looking at it now. however i dont. I did do drugs but i never thought about them, i never looked forward to taking them, was mostly just spontanious at raves (which i've also stopped going to now).

I had to go to hospital, it was the nurses/docs + my mom who said i almost had heart failure - not my imagination.

 

I'm glad that you realized you were on the edge and had to change your act around real quick. I guess, it is indeed true that someone who takes drugs cannot not stop until he/she faces near death situations. Don't hang around with those friends who you see can influence or cause you trouble. Just hang around with that one friend who drinks only and be friends with his friends (who I assume aren't druggies).

 

you cant really tell who are your true friends. cuz friends can change in certain situations. like some "friends" that you grew up with your whole life could backstab you for the right price. trust me i know this from experience

 

There are a lot of fucked up people in this world. Just live your life looking down on everyone else that way you learn to not expect anything.

 

alot of fake friends... my friend i knew for 10 years got me setup to get shot but i only got shot in the leg tho. you gotta becareful with who u trust

 

suggest you join a a school group with decent kids. Also seek some help go 2 a doctor those drugs wont get you anywhere. lastly fake people are everywhere im in college and problem still exist.

 

hey man YOLO dont hang out with kids who are going to help themselfs get ahead and not yourself a true friend will put you ahead of them <3 if you need any personal help message me and il be your support bro

 

It is very hard to find truthful friends nowadays, but I assure you, you will find some good, caring people although they are very scarce. I've had trust issues myself for a few years now due to:
1. My friend had me jumped by 3 kids when I was 13 years old.
2. My girlfriend of 2 years cheated on me with my best friend.


I only have about 2 or 3 people that I consider friends right now, and I even have trust issues with them as well which basically ruins friendships and relationships. My point is, just stay away from the harmful people that you know already, and don't be quick to become friends with people, try to feel them out for a bit first. Good luck.

 

You learn what people are like through experiences, now you've experienced that you'll know to look out for that type of behaviour.
Never judge a person on looks though, Some of the friends I have now; when I first met them I was like "woooaah WTF weirdo" but once I got to know them they were fine.
A lot of people I meet say they were scared of me when first meeting me, just because I'm big from the gym and the type of clothes I wear are associated with the thugs that beat people up or no reason. But I prefer online gamin rather than a criminal record.
Anyway... The moral of the story is, don't judge people on how they look (unless it's clearly obvious they are a smack head or something).

 

damn, thats just not right.

 

Some people like yourself like to see the good in everybody. I do feel that some people just have bad intentions, whether they are just like that or something has caused them to be like that it doesn't matter. If you tried helping them and they don't fix themselves up, I wouldn't be friend's with them. Regarding your exact situation, I would talk to your friend you've had for 2 years and ask him what's going on, why he is threatening people and taking money off people and try and help him. If he rejects your help or acts aggressively towards you, I'd seriously consider not hanging around him.

 

dang 10 years and he did that? thats crazy man